David Morin – Self-Conscious to Confident

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David Morin – Self-Conscious to Confident

Build Confidence From Within, Break Free From Worrying What Others Think, and Start Being You

“Why on EARTH are these two even friends?”

I finally understood what was really going on with this unlikely duo

When he and his brother were younger, they had been very much alike

After months, reality dawned on Andrew: There was still no lasting confidence in sight. (Only more blushing and voice-failing.)

Jeff, the nervous one, took the safe path through life

I’m David Morin.

A few years ago, I probably looked successful on the surface. But I didn’t feel successful.

Why?

Because I was still self-conscious and nervous.

I didn’t know what to say (and was often ignored in group conversations). I got stuck in boring small talk instead of making deep connections with people I liked.

I had an ocean of insecurity inside of me worrying about what others thought of me.

Fast forward 8 years, and I’ve looked under every stone, tried every method and read every advice when it comes to social nervosity and social skills.

The interest in what I’ve learned has been huge. Perhaps you’ve seen my writing in magazines like Business Insider and Lifehacker.

Today, I’m fortunate enough to share my experience with thousands of people every day.

When you’re through the barrier of self-consciousness, what will YOUR life look like?

• •Feeling truly comfortable around new people, being yourself without worrying about what they might think?
• •Feeling relaxed and confident – so you can convey who you are?
• •Connecting with people and make friends easier?
• •Expressing yourself, your thoughts, and your personality without having that stupid voice inside of you holding you back?
• •Not letting fear of rejection dictate what you do and don’t do in life?
• •Daring to go after and get the dream job you know you were meant for?
• •Being confident enough to leave a good impression on that special someone you like?
• •Having a close family of friends who respect you and accept you for who you are?
• •Feeling CAPABLE, POWERFUL, and feeling your self-esteem blasting off?

Viktor Sander (B. Sc.)

Viktor is amazing:

He makes sure that every single piece of advice we give works. (We’re both fed up with made-up bro-science.)

He’s a behavioral scientist and has been working with me since 2012.

Before SocialSelf, Viktor coached men and women to be more successful in social life and with women.

I don’t know any other “gurus” out there working together with a real behavioral scientist. I’m thankful to have Viktor on my team!

Viktor and I reviewed the most popular courses and books on confidence, we realized that most of them were filled with advice that doesn’t even work.

1. Positive Self-Statements Power for Some, Peril for Others, Joanne V. Wood, W.Q. Elaine Perunovic, John W. Lee, July 1, 2009
2. Senay, I., Albarracín, D., & Noguchi, K. (2010). Motivating Goal-Directed Behavior Through Introspective Self-Talk: The Role of the Interrogative Form of Simple Future Tense. Psychological Science 21(4), 499-504.
3. Kappes, H., and Oettingen, G. (2011). Positive fantasies about idealized futures sap energy. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology

Proudly presenting: Self-Conscious to Confident

• •We surveyed over 20 000 people.
• •We read through 400+ NEW studies and scientific literature.
• •We condensed our own, personal lifetime experience, and turned all of this into an easy-to-follow system that anyone can use to crush their social nervousness.

This program isn’t about “more advice” (The internet is full of advice, and still social anxiety is super common).

My goal for you is to wake up every morning a little more confident than the day before

What results can you expect?

• •It starts getting easier for you to “let go” of negative feelings. We accomplish this by tapping into powerful new methods from cognitive behavioral therapy.
• •We break down your doubts, self-criticism, or worries about “what others think”.
• •You start having a more realistic view of what people think of you. That makes everyday social interactions easier, warmer and more enjoyable.

• •Your results from the first weeks are growing permanent: You’ll notice how you can adopt them in the majority of situations.
• •You’ve been implementing several mindsets from naturally confident people that will create an overall improvement of your self-confidence.
• •You’ve developed a new relationship to your “inner critic” (You know – the irrational voice and feeling that you won’t succeed, that you aren’t worth it or that people don’t like you.) It’s still there, but it no longer controls you.
• •You can interact more effortlessly with people without worrying that they won’t accept you or like you.
• •You’ve started to improve your ability to connect with people.
• •Around this time, many members start to receive positive feedback from others. Warm smiles, compliments, and open arms.

So what exactly will we go through?

Here are some highlights from the program curriculum:

What we’ll go through

Week 1: Permanent confidence and self-esteem from within

1. You know all those negative thoughts and feelings you have about yourself? We’ll methodically break them down and look at what’s rational and what’s not. Most thoughts turn out to not be based on reality, and simply breaking them down gives a more realistic, positive view on ourselves. This is a fun and motivating first step.
2. In the same manner, we’ll get a realistic view of what OTHERS think of you. (This makes our members MUCH more at ease in social settings.)
3. We’ll be looking at truly confident people and reveal their secrets. We learn how they can be immune to self-doubt, self-criticism, fear of failure, or what others think. When you worry less, life becomes more fun. And more importantly, it allows you to do all those amazing things that you didn’t dare to before.
4. We’ll unwind your subconscious inner workings that currently cause fear and worry in your brain. We’ll use powerful new exercises from cognitive behavioral research to change those old, ingrained thought patterns for good. You’re free to do what you want in life when you’re no longer bound by old beliefs.

And much more…

Week 2: Self-Consciousness: How to feel confident and at ease in any situation

1. We’ll be changing our inner wirings when it comes to confidence so that we AUTOMATICALLY and INTUITIVELY can feel truly confident (without having to “get into the mood” “getting pumped” or consciously having to think about it.)
2. When our members first join, they are often overly harsh on themselves. We’ll be using powerful methods to be more accepting and supporting of ourselves, just like we are supportive of our friends.
3. Avoiding getting stuck in your head, becoming more present in the moment and stopping self-conscious thoughts with Attention Training. (Proven to be extra effective the MORE anxious or nervous someone is.)
4. Ever noticed how some can be confident without having the looks, status, or finances? If they can be happy with themselves, we can, too. You’ll be confident in yourself even if there’s some part of you or your life you don’t like.
5. Why you don’t need an “interesting life” to make others take interest in us, and what we can learn from charismatic people to make others gravitate toward us.
6. How to stop worrying whether others might like us or not.

And much more…

Week 3: Confidence through authenticity

Ever noticed how some try to be confident, but they come off as fake and their low self-esteem shines through? In this course, we’ll talk about how to develop an authentic, congruent confidence from within. Real confidence isn’t a facade. It’s something we truly are.

1. Developing your congruency and authenticity to be the person you TRULY want to be.
2. Becoming truly confident from your core without ever feeling like a fraud or “fake”.
3. How to be confident without appearing cocky, fake, or arrogant.
4. How to avoid “overdoing it” and come off as tryhard by calibrating our behavior
5. Avoiding any tendency to come off as needy.
6. Keeping 100% of your integrity in any situation life throws at you.

And much more…

Week 4: Confidence when talking to anyone

Imagine knowing that whatever social situation you end up in, you’ll know what to say and what to talk about. You’ll be able to make yourself memorable. Improving our conversation skills makes us more confident.

1. How to feel at ease and get a natural flow in any conversation. (No more awkward silence worrying about what to say next.)
2. Becoming fluent at everyday banter.
3. How to get past awkward small talk and start making INTERESTING conversation that helps you actually bond and get closer to people.
4. How to step by step go from “Hi” to in a natural way find mutual interests and having an interesting discussion about them.
5. Exactly what you should do when your head goes blank and we can’t come up with anything to say.
6. What to do to never worry that what you say will sound weird or stupid.

And much more…

Week 5: Confidence in groups and new situations

Throughout my life, I’ve always been the most intimidated in new groups. I can attest to the power of this week and can’t wait for you to experience it yourself:

1. Feeling truly confident even in large or loud groups and in new situations such as a new job, a new class, or a night out.
2. How to form an instant connection with someone you like, instead of getting stuck in endless small talk.
3. How to not be intimidated by others (Even if they’re very successful, tall, arrogant, loud or attractive). You’ll be able to meet anyone at your level.
4. Learning the secrets of charismatic people to be memorable and paid attention to, when you feel like it.
5. Speaking up in group conversations and being let into the conversation, being taken seriously, being listened to and not being interrupted.

And much more…

Week 6: Confidence in dating and relationships (friends, family, and partners)

Confidence is attractive. (In fact, when it comes to dating, it’s more important than money or looks!) This week, we’ll go through…

1. How to talk and act with someone you like
2. How to speak with anyone you’re attracted to with rock-solid confidence without worrying about how you come off or what they’ll think of you.
3. Initiating a conversation with anyone you’re attracted to.
4. Being bullet-proof when it comes to taking rejection. (Imagine what you can do in life when you no longer worry about rejection or failure.)
5. Never again risking lack of confidence coming between you and someone you love.
6. Using confidence to create strong bonds with partners, family, and friends.
7. Knowing exactly how to deal with toxic or dominant people without being emotionally affected by them.
8. Always knowing how to confront people who act disrespectfully.

And much more…

Week 7: A confident life

Social anxiety doesn’t just affect friendships and dating. It’s a barrier to all areas of life. That’s why this week is so important: We’ll be going through what actually works to live our life to the fullest.

1. What small life changes make a huge difference in our lives and enable us to live the confidently glowing life we deserve.
2. Being able to fully put our trust in someone when we know that it benefits us.
3. Crushing procrastination and lack of discipline.
4. Always living our greatest – Staying on top of the world and not being confined by lack of confidence or what others might think.
5. A system for building the exact habits you need for a colorful, enjoyable and fulfilling life.

And much more…

Week 8: Maintaining and improving your confidence permanently

Here’s where we take the next step and make your results stick. Here’s also where you’ll find the advanced areas to go even further: You’ll learn to master the life-changing capability of charisma.

1. Developing a PERMANENT confidence that you have with you in any new situation in life.
2. I don’t know how many times in life I’ve been motivated, but then I lost motivation, felt pessimistic and failed. Here, we’ll make sure that your results STICK even if you run into challenges or experience failures.
3. Advanced: Becoming truly charismatic. What even is charisma? YES – it’s possible for anyone to learn. We’ll break it down into detail and you’ll learn how to become a truly magnetic person.
4. Advanced: Living a life where you get the respect you deserve from others.

And much more…

This is what you get in the program:

• • •A complete and easy-to-follow system to make you confident, proven to work by hundreds of beta testers and members
  • •Lifetime access to the 8-week program and all future updates.
  • •51 videos carefully explaining everything in a step-by-step, easy to understand manner.
  • •32+ exercises (that are not weird or scary but there to teach you new, confident, mindsets) proven in studies to significantly increase confidence.
  • •Personalized help from David and Viktor when you need us.
  • •A community of like-minded who’ll support you and understand you.
  • •Your own personalized “Daily System” that keeps you motivated and ensures that you follow through.

Who is this program for?

• •You restrict yourself around new people because you worry about what they might think of you.
• •Sometimes you don’t believe in yourself or your abilities.
• •You often worry about embarrassing or humiliating yourself.
• •You often feel shy around those you’re not yet comfortable with.
• •You’re afraid others will notice when you’re either anxious, sweating, blushing, trembling, or stuttering.
• •Maybe you think that “If I only looked more fit or attractive things would change” (Even though you know about all those people who are confident DESPITE their looks.)
• •After a social situation, you often analyze everything you said and did and beat yourself up for any mistakes.
• •Your social anxiety is hurting your relationships and your daily life because you avoid social events, parties, and maybe even small things like talking on the phone.
• •You want to be more confident in group conversations and especially around people who intimidate you.
• •You want to be better at hitting up conversations with others and know what to say, especially around someone you’re attracted to.
• •Your mind goes blank because you overthink and worry too much in social settings.
• •You avoid many opportunities in life because you’re afraid to fail.
• •This makes you feel like you’re missing out on life.

It’s NOT for those who…

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