Tripp Lanier – THE NEW MANual
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Tripp Lanier – THE NEW MANual
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Today, we continue the series of interviews with Next Level Guys. For this installment, I grabbed a few moments with Tripp Lanier of the New Man Podcast fame to discuss men and where we are going wrong as a gender.
WHO AM I TALKING TO?
Who: Tripp Lanier
Where is He normally
You can get his superb free video tip series at:
Why should I care?: Trippβs material is life changing. There is no other way to put it. I discovered Tripp during a really bad time in my life. I was struggling with a lot of bullshit and I needed answers to some questions that were plaguing me. Unfortunately, men are very timid to talk about their problems and many will just try and hide away from their issues.
I found Trippβs site on one of my nights hunt for new material to digest online and Iβve never stopped listening. He covers a WIDE range of topics that appeal to all men, he gives as much great advice as he receives from his guests, he gets answers to the questions we are afraid to ask and he does so with one of the coolest voices Iβve heard on a podcast yet. You canβt help but like him! Check him out now!
SO WHAT DID TRIPP HAVE TO SAY?
NLG: Hi Tripp, thanks for joining us. You give out some awesome advice out on your site and interview leading experts but can you please tell me what advice has really hit home most for you in all the interviews that youβve done?
TL: I think most of us are all swimming in the same water. And to some degree weβre all trying to prove something β that weβre smart enough, attractive enough, strong enough, manly enough, etc.Β Many of us arenβt even aware that this need to prove that weβre good enough is driving almost everything we do. Itβs exhausting.
But the most powerful thing is realizing that underneath much of this βpursuitβ is the reality that weβre already good enough just as we are. Weβre worthy of love just as we are.
Thatβs a tough one for many to swallow. It can be for me and I find I have to remind myself regularly. βYes, you can go create X,Y,Z and do this and that but donβt forget that youβre already good enough. This other shit doesnβt define who you truly are.β
Living life without something to prove is truly liberating. Try it sometime.
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NLG: Good answer. We men seem to think we need to achieve things to be βcompleteβ when we are aalready all we need to be right now. So what in your opinion defines a βreal manβ?
TL: I donβt get into the discussion about what a βreal manβ is. Sadly, I think most of us are looking too far outside of ourselves for direction. Itβs natural and to a large extent fear based. βIf I donβt fit in, if I donβt appear to be a βreal manβ then something bad may happen.β The gutsiest thing we can do is to listen to ourselves, to be who we really are β even if that means being rather feminine or going against the grain of what many may judge to be βmanly.β To me, that takes true strength.
NLG: I like it. Stop being what you think others want to be and instead listen to that little voice inside and be what you really desire. In todayβs age, men face considerably different problems to those that our Grandfathers would have. What do you think is the biggest problems that men face in modern day society?
I was at a concert and saw thousands of folks watching the show through their phones as they recorded it. My guess is that very few of them will actually go back and watch this shaky video with crappy sound. They missed the opportunity to be impacted by the music and the others enjoying it.
I was at an NFL game a while back and was sitting a few rows from the field. Amazing seats. There was a young man in front of me sitting down watching *the same game* on his phone. He was missing this amazing experience of being in a crowded stadium full of excited people.
I work with some younger men in my coaching practice and texting is robbing them of their ability to relate and connect with women. Theyβre missing the opportunities to learn how to read and interpret the signals women and other people give us.
And Iβm guilty of getting sucked into a screen at home instead of playing with my daughter on the phone. Days of playing with my daughter are numbered. Do I really want to be on my phone instead of laughing and giggling with her? Of course not.
Again, Iβm not anti-tech, but I think itβs sad that more of us are choosing to miss out on the amazing experiences happening all around us. Being checked out impacts everything we truly care about and want. Being distracted places a wall between ourselves and what we truly want in life.
NLG: Iβm guilty of that! We need to stop trying to record life and instead actually live in the moment of the event as it happens. The ironic thing is that Social Media has caused us to forget how to be Social!
I get a lot of emails from people who want to change but feel they βjust canβtβ due to X, Y or Z. What advice would you give someone who wants to change but feels he βjust canβtβ because of depression or whatever β how can they just βlet goβ and be who they want to be?
TL: Iβm not a mental health professional so I wonβt speak to depression or mental illness other than to say, if youβre depressed get professional help. As for βletting goβ and being who they are β itβs about baby steps. Clarify one thing you would do if you werenβt afraid or if you didnβt have to prove XYZ. It doesnβt matter how small. Then find the smallest step you can take towards doing that. Do that everyday. Weβve heard this many times.Β Itβs a cliche because itβs true.
This is where having a coach is helpful. A good coach will help you clarify what you really want, what actions would be satisfying, and then hold you accountable to follow through.
No idea alone is going to really make the change. Making different choices and behaviors creates change.
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NLG: Your site is littered with Grade-A interviews, many of which I have favorited on my computer. However, what do you consider your three best interviews personally and why?
TL: I loved the βHow to Navigate an Womanβs Emotional Minefieldβ series with my wife, Alyson Schwabe Lanier and Christiane Pelmas. It was juicy to talk about my attraction for other women with my wife and to do so in front of the mics.
Click here for part 1
Click here for part 2
And I really enjoyed interviewing Laird Hamilton. Thereβs something really rewarding about how an interview may start off with a structured vibe and then start to relax into just a good conversation. I love that. This show hasnβt gone live yet. Itβll be up in February. Stay tuned.
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